ARTICLE 2:
Dating Communnications Do´s & Dont´s
Matchmaking services that are available When going bar-hopping looking for a date has lost its zest and finding dates elsewhere has gone nowhere then you may want to consider one of the various matchmaking services that are available.
Below are a few examples of services that you can use to find a date of your choice. Of course they all have their pros and cons but above all they do work. Dating phone lines:
Calling 900 numbers in order to listen to dating ads or even have your personal ad recorded is a very popular way to find a date. It is very direct and everyone that participates are typically very up front and clear as to what they are looking for.
The downside of this type of matchmaking service is that you do not have any physical attributes to go on and of course many people falsify their information which could make for a very awkward situation should you meet them and nothing is as it was advertised.
Personal Ads:
Personal ads are also another very popular way to meet that special man or lady. You can find personal ads in just about any publication, especially local newspapers. These ads tend to be more serious and dependable than phone dating lines but the downside is that it generally takes a while to respond and get responses.
Singles clubs:
If you are comfortable with joining meeting scenes where the entire group of men and women are all single and looking for a match, then this type of matching making service may be right up your ally. You know what they look like, get a chance to actually have a personal conversation with people, and of course it can be a relaxing way of finding a date without the pressure of traditional dating. Dating Niche – Article
Dating communication Do's & Dont's
A very important ingredient to having a superior relationship lies in good communication. In fact, it is almost impossible to have any kind of relationship with a person unless you are able to relate to him or her.
The ability to communicate effectively means that you have to pay close attention and to listen very carefully. We all have different method of communication. You need to be able to understand, appreciate, and respect how other people communicate, especially your dating partner.
A good way to show your date that you are listening carefully to him or her is to repeat what he or she has said.
Say for example your partner tells you:
“You have been very distant lately,”
you then say,
“So you are saying I have been distant?”
Follow up with an open ended question like “Tell me more about what you mean.”
By saying that, you can verify what your spouse has said and make him or her feel comfortable about talking to you about his or her concern.
How you communicate with your words could bring comfort by reducing fear and easing tension.
The following are some guiding principles to help you take advantage of your words and get your point across more effectively:
Do make the person you are talking to feel secure by offering a lot of support and appreciation.
This gets the silent types to open up more and feel at ease. Don't make your date feel uncomfortable by judging, criticizing, or making fun of what he or she has to say.
- Do relax.
- Feeling anxious can mess up your confidence and attention.
- Take deep breathes when you feel like you need to end the conversation because of fear or panic.
- Don't feel that everything has to be resolved at one time.
- Do listen carefully and avoid interrupting while the other person is talking. Don't use offensive vocabularies and expressions.
It is very disrespectful and cheapens you and the person you are talking to. Do get to the point and be clear on what you want to get across or if you have any questions.
